Carol Boulware, MFT, Ph.D.

ABS Board Certified Sex Therapist -- Clinical Fellow,
American Academy of Clinical Sexologists

Sex Information Bookstore
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These books have been reviewed and often used to assist individuals and couples in sex therapy to assist them in achieving the rich, fulfilling sex life that everybody deserves.

I want to offer you a list of my favorite books and a way to order them quickly, efficiently and cheaply. You can order any of these books right from this website. Just click on the title and you will be taken straight away to the Amazon website where you can purchase your book(s). Read, learn, enjoy!

  1. Affairs/Infidelity
  2. Better Sex in Relationships
  3. Better Sex in the Golden Years
  4. Contraception
  5. Fantasies
  6. General Sex Information
  7. Hormones and Sex
  8. Masturbation
  9. Sexual Abuse
  10. Sexual Abuse / Professional Resources
  11. Sexual Addiction
  12. Sex Therapy / Professional Resources
  13. Tantric Sex
  14. Sex Guides - Improve Your Sex Life
  15. Music for Sensuality and Relaxation


Affairs: A Guide to Working Through the Repercussions of Infidelity
by Emily M. Brown

After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful
by Janis Abrahms Spring, Michael Spring

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Better Sex in Relationships

How to Make Love All the Time
by Barbara De Angelis

101 Ways to Romance
by Barbara De Angelis

Real Moments for Lovers
by Barbara De Angelis

Mars and Venus in the Bedroom: A Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion
by John, Ph.D. Gray Hardcover

Mars and Venus Together Forever: A Practical Guide to Creating Lasting intimacy
by John Gray

Mars and Venus Together Forever: Relationship Skills for Lasting Love
by John Gray

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your Relationships by John Gray

Dr. Ruth's Guide for Married Lovers
by Dr. Ruth Westheimer

Passionate Marriage: Love, Sex, and Intimacy in Emotionally Committed Relationships
by David Schnarch Ph. D.

Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking
by Patricia, Dr. Love, Jo Robinson

Relationship Rescue: A Seven-Step Strategy forReconnecting With Your Partner
by Phillip C.McGraw

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Better Sex in the Golden Years

150 Most-Asked Questions About Midlife Sex, Love, and Intimacy: What Women and Their Partners Really Want to Know
by Ruth S. Jacobowitz

Love and Sex After 60
by Robert N., M.D. Butler, Myrna I., M.S.W. Lewis

Sex, and Romance After 60
by Zenith Henkin Gross

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A Clinical Guide for Contraception
by Leon Speroff, Philip D. Darney

Managing Contraception
by M.P.H. Robert A.Hatcher M.D.

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My Secret Garden: Women's Sexual Fantasies
by Nancy Friday

Forbidden Flowers: More Women's Sexual Fantasies
by Nancy Friday

Women on Top: How Real Life Has Changed Women's Sexual Fantasies
by Nancy Friday

His Secret Life: Male Sexual Fantasies
by Bob Berkowitz

The Best Sex I Ever Had: Real People Recall Their Most Erotic Experiences
by Steven Finz

The Joy of Sexual Fantasy
by Andrew Stanway, John Geary (Illustrator)

Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men: What Every Man Wants to Know About Making Love to a Woman and Never Asks
by Jamie Goddard, Kurt Brungardt

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General Sex Information

ABOUT SEX Sexual Solutions: For Men and the Women Who Love Them
by Michael Castleman

Dr. Ruth's Encyclopedia of Sex
by Ruth Westheimer

Generation Sex
by Judy Kuriansky

The Hite Report
by Shere Hite

The New Male Sexuality
by Bernie Zibergeld

How Sex Works
by Elizabeth Fenwick, Richard Walker

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Hormones and Sex

The Alchemy of Love and Lust: How Our Sex Hormones Influence Our Relationships
by Theresa L. Crenshaw

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Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving
by Betty Dodson Paperback

The New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex
by Cathy Winks and Anne Semans

For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality
by Lonnie Garfield Barbach

The Clitoral Truth: The Secret World at Your Fingertips
by Rebecca Chalker, Fish

Good Vibrations: The New Complete Guide to Vibrators
by Joani Blank, Ann Whidden

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Sexual Abuse

Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love Was Sexually Abused as a child, as Support Book
by Laura Davis

Ghosts in the Bedroom: A Guide for Partners of Incest Survivors
by Ken Graber.

The Right to Innocence: Healing the Trauma of Childhood Sexual Abuse
by Beverly Engel

Outgrowing the Pain - A Book About Adults Abused As Children
by Eliana Gil

Partners in Recovery: How Mates, Lovers & Other Prosurvivors Can Learn to Support & Cope With Adult Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse
by Beverly Engel

More Sexual Abuse Books

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Sexual Abuse / Professional Resources

Betrayed as Boys: Psychodynamic Treatment of Sexually Abused Men
by Richard Gartner

Female Sexual Abuse of Children
by Michele Elliott (Editor)

Reclaiming Herstory: Ericksonian Solution-Focused Therapy for Sexual Abuse
by Cheryl Bell-Gadsby, Anne L. Siegenberg, Anne L. Siegnenberg

Recollections of Sexual Abuse: Treatment Principles and Guidelines
by Christine A. Courtois, Ph.D.

Sexually Aggressive Women: Current Perspectives and Controversies
by Peter Anderson, Cindy Stuckman-Johnson

The Abused Child: Psychodynamic Understanding and Treatment
by Toni Heineman, Alicia Lieberman

Psychotherapy of Abused and Neglected Children
by John Pearce,Terry Pezzot-Pearce (Contributor)

The Emotionally Abused and Neglected Child: dentification, Assessment, and Intervention (Wiley Series in Child Care and Protection
by Dorota Iwaniec

The Healing Power of Play: Working With Abused Children
by Eliana Gil

Treating Abused Adolescents
by Eliana Gil

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Sexual Addiction

Contrary to Love: Helping the Sexual Addict
by Patrick J. Carnes

Hope and Recovery: A Twelve Step Guide for Healing from Compulsive Sexual Behavior

Sexaholics Anonymous - Practical help for those who suffer from Sexual Addiction

Women Who Love Sex Addicts: Help for Healing from the Effects of a Relationship With a Sex Addict
by Douglas Weiss and Dianne Debusk

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Sex Therapy / Professional Resources

Case Studies in Sex Therapy
by Raymond C. Rosen, Sandra R. Leiblum

Illustrated Manual of Sex Therapy
by Helen Singer Kaplan

Handbook of Sex Therapy
by J. Lo Piccolo, L. Lo Piccolo, Joseph Lopiccolo

Principles and Practice of Sex Therapy: Update for the 1990s
by Sandra R.Rosen, Raymond C. Leiblum , Raymond C. Rosen

Case Studies in Sex Therapy
by Raymond C. Rosen

Constructing the Sexual Crucible: An Integration of Sexual and Marital Therapy
by David M. Schnarch

Passionate Marriage: Love, Sex, and Intimacy in Emotionally Committed Relationships
by David Schnarch

Sexual Dysfunction: A Guide for Assessment and Treatment (Treatment Manuals for Practitioners Series)
by John P. Wincze, Michael P. Carey

Human Sexuality
by William H. Masters, et al

Handbook of Relational Diagnosis and Dysfunctional Family Patterns (Wiley Series in Couples and Family Dynamics and Treatment)
by Florence W. Kaslow

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Tantric Sex

The Art of Tantric Sex
by Nitya Lacroix, Mark Harwood

Anne Hooper's Pocket Kama Sutra: A New Guide to the Ancient Arts of Love
by Anne Hooper

The Art of Sexual Ecstasy: The Path of Sacred Sexuality for Western Lovers
by Margo Anand, Leandra Hussey (Illustrator)

The Art of Sexual Magic
by Margo Anand

The Complete Kama Sutra: The First Unabridged Modern Translation of the Classic Indian Text
by Alain Danielou

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Sex Guides - Improve Your Sex Life

The 10 Commandments of Pleasure: Erotic Keys to a Healthy Sexual Life
by Susan Block

101 Nights of Grrreat Romance: How to Make Love With Your Clothes on
by Laura Corn

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Music for Sensuality and Relaxation

Offerings - Vas / Audio CD

Sunyata - Vas / Audio CD

Healing Waters - Dean Evenson

In the Presence fo the Light - Terry Oldfield

Inner Peace - Steven Halpern

Spectum Suite - Steven Halpern

Accelerating Self-Healing - Steven Halpern

Gifts Of The Angels - Steven Halpern

Music for Sound Healing - Steven Halpern

Serenity Suite - Steven Halpern

Radiant Health And Well Being - Steven Halpern

Ancient Echoes - George Kelly & Steven Halpern

Centering Meditation - Merlin's Magic Slow World

Liquid Mind III: Balance - Slow World

Angel Love - Aeoliah

Vol.1 - Angeles of Healing - Aeoliah

Chrysalis - 2002

Novus Magnificat: Through the Stargate - Constance Demby

Fairy Ring - Mike Rowland

Angel Delight - Mike Rowland

Garden of Serenity - David & Steven Gordon

Silk Road Volume 1 - Kitaro

The Light Touch - Merlin's Magic

Heart of Reiki - Merlin's Magic

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